Virginia Vitzthum

  • He's a lover -- and also a hater

    Dale Peck, the madman critic famous for his trash jobs on Moody, Eggers and Franzen, talks about forgiving his abusive father in his new "fictional memoir" and wonders why we can't all get along.
  • G-strings and Ph.D.s

    Katherine Frank stripped, interviewed her customers and then wrote a thesis about male desire.
  • Endless love

    The men are deeper, and the sex can be sweet as well as hot. But dating at 41 is no less exquisitely confusing than it is at 21.
  • No Pistols, no Who, no Rolling Stones

    Why the Mekons are the only middle-aged band you don't have to be embarrassed about.
  • "12 Monkeys"

    Combining time-travel thriller and experimental film, Terry Gilliam's 1995 oddball classic steals a tale of doomed love and cruel fate from Hitchcock -- then pays back the debt.
  • Protecting us from predators

    Is it fair to send sex offenders deemed "dangerous" to mental wards after they've served prison time?
  • Looking for Mr. Other Half

    I want my soul mate to be my lover, best friend and intellectual equal. Why is that asking too much?
  • Escape from hell

    After months of editing S/M porn and being harassed, Juan has a "bottoming epiphany." Second of two parts.
  • Juan in hell

    A computer geek becomes the whipping boy for a gay S/M porn producer. First of two parts.
  • Kind of a drag

    A young man turns himself into a beautiful woman, but the transformation is only skin-deep.
  • A Christmas miracle

    For a man alone for the holidays, a Christmas trick is the gift that keeps on giving.
  • Better loving through imagery

    A pair of video artists try to turn the TV into a love machine with a nonpornographic video designed to steer your gaze toward your partner.
  • Schmuck amok

    A struggling comedian takes on the beauty elite with an exhaustive, lifelong program of "approaching" (please don't call it "accosting") models and actresses on the street.
  • Sexual healing

    Unwittingly exposing America's hypocrisy about sex may be a highlight of, not a stain on, Clinton's legacy.
  • Reform school

    A program for first-time johns lets offenders off the hook in exchange for their attendance at a daylong session taught by ex-hookers.
  • Compartmentalized kissing

    Does it work to have different people for different things, or do we all want a spouse?
  • Keepin' it real

    Mary Lou, a teenage prostitute, turns to a married man for protection and starts to like him, maybe a little too much. Part 4 in a series.
  • Just civil unioned!

    A newlywed lesbian couple talks about the meaning of their Vermont don't-call-it-marriage.
  • Bambi the mermaid

    This dominatrix loves to perform for her clients, but won't push it so far that it threatens her husband. Second of two parts.
  • Bambi the mermaid

    This Midwestern dominatrix and professional baby charms snakes at Coney Island -- and she looks great in a fishtail and pasties. First of two parts.
  • "The Seekers: A Bounty Hunter's Story" by Joshua Armstrong

    A boastful, badass manhunter reveals the secrets of his craft.
  • Selling intimacy

    Prostitution has always been useful for people who can't find true love. Part 3 in a series.
  • Ball of confusion

    Mary Lou and her johns mix it up -- who's zooming who? Part 2 in a series.
  • The story of a young prostitute

    A teenage call girl gets her "parenting" wherever she can find it. Part 1 in a series.
  • Staying on the island

    I lived my own version of "Survivor" one winter in St. Thomas with a friend and three strangers.
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