http://dir.salon.com/topics/therapy/?source=rss&aim=therapy en-us Copyright 2007 Salon.com. Fri, 13 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT By Cary Tennis Fri, 13 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/06/13/porn_addiction/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/06/13/porn_addiction/index.html?source=rss My girlfriend thinks I just play computer games a lot! By Cary Tennis Fri, 13 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/06/09/trauma/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/06/09/trauma/index.html?source=rss I'd like to relax, but traumatic memories come rushing back. By Cary Tennis Fri, 13 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/05/07/depressed_husband/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/05/07/depressed_husband/index.html?source=rss He's being treated for depression, and it's making me crazy. By Cary Tennis Fri, 13 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/04/30/husband_wants_divorce/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/04/30/husband_wants_divorce/index.html?source=rss We've got five children, one only 2 weeks old -- and now he says he wants a divorce. By Cary Tennis Fri, 13 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/04/24/upstager/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/04/24/upstager/index.html?source=rss He takes credit for my ideas, he insinuates himself into my work life, he appropriates my friends: What's going on? By Cary Tennis Fri, 13 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/03/17/filthy_carpet/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/03/17/filthy_carpet/index.html?source=rss I let the dogs ruin the carpet again. How do I replace it? By Cary Tennis Fri, 13 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/02/26/unmarried_marriage_counselor/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/02/26/unmarried_marriage_counselor/index.html?source=rss How can I help others when I can't get beyond a third date myself? By Cary Tennis Fri, 13 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/02/20/disrespected_by_boyfriend/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/02/20/disrespected_by_boyfriend/index.html?source=rss I asked him why he was doing the bump and grind with a woman, and he said he thought it would get him laid. By Jerome Weeks Fri, 13 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/books/review/2008/01/29/antidepressants/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/books/review/2008/01/29/antidepressants/index.html?source=rss Awash in antidepressants, America is manipulated by Big Pharma and numbed out to basic, and inevitable, human pain -- or so argue critics of our serotonin nation. By Amanda Eyre Ward Fri, 13 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/feature/2008/01/11/preschool_or_passports/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/feature/2008/01/11/preschool_or_passports/index.html?source=rss What if the best thing for my sons turned out to be uprooting them from everything they know? By Cary Tennis Fri, 13 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/11/06/anger/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/11/06/anger/index.html?source=rss My father was full of rage and insult, and I sat mute through his tirades. Now I'm exploding at people too. By Cary Tennis Fri, 13 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/10/24/cant_say_no/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/10/24/cant_say_no/index.html?source=rss He propositioned me and threatened me and wouldn't leave until I signed the contract! By Cary Tennis Fri, 13 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/10/15/trigger_sister/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/10/15/trigger_sister/index.html?source=rss I know we had a difficult childhood, and I'm over most of it, but when I see my sister I start to get a little crazy! By Cary Tennis Fri, 13 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/10/09/cheater/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/10/09/cheater/index.html?source=rss I've been a cheater since my very first boyfriend and no one has ever found out. By Cary Tennis Fri, 13 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/06/15/duty_to_client/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/06/15/duty_to_client/index.html?source=rss I'm aghast to find I'll be sharing an office with a man whom -- for good but confidential reasons -- I utterly detest. By Eilene Zimmerman Fri, 13 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/news/feature/2007/05/16/virtual_reality/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/news/feature/2007/05/16/virtual_reality/index.html?source=rss U.S. soldiers traumatized by Iraq are combating PTSD with a virtual reality treatment that plunges them back into the war zone. By Cary Tennis Fri, 13 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/02/20/submissive/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/02/20/submissive/index.html?source=rss I tease men into dominating me. Afterward I feel shame and anger. By Cary Tennis Fri, 13 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/02/09/newsom_sex_scandal/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/02/09/newsom_sex_scandal/index.html?source=rss Why did Ruby Rippey-Tourk confess her affair with the San Francisco mayor to her husband? What good would that do? By Cary Tennis Fri, 13 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/02/08/crazy_mother/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/02/08/crazy_mother/index.html?source=rss She went on Paxil eight years ago when my dad died, and now she's acting irrationally. By Cary Tennis Fri, 13 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/01/30/alcoholic_husband/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/01/30/alcoholic_husband/index.html?source=rss I'd give him an ultimatum, but what if he sobered up and I still wanted to leave? By Cary Tennis Fri, 13 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/01/09/airport_blues/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/01/09/airport_blues/index.html?source=rss Why am I such a perfectionist? It's driving me crazy. By Rebecca Traister Fri, 13 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/feature/2006/02/25/happiness/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/feature/2006/02/25/happiness/index.html?source=rss Psychologist Steven Hayes says the American obsession with feeling good is preventing us from living good -- and that living life to the fullest means a lot of pain. Lori Leibovich Fri, 13 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/broadsheet/2006/01/27/stripper/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/broadsheet/2006/01/27/stripper/index.html?source=rss The successful therapist is also caught practicing without a license -- but her patients don't really care. By Laura Miller Fri, 13 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/books/review/2005/11/02/oxnam/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/books/review/2005/11/02/oxnam/index.html?source=rss Robert Oxnam has suffered with multiple personality disorder for much of his adult life. Now his three personalities -- he once had 11 -- have written a strange and fascinating book. By Cary Tennis Fri, 13 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2005/10/18/divorce/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2005/10/18/divorce/index.html?source=rss We're separating. I say we need help. My wife disagrees.