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By Cary Tennis
April 12, 2002
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How do you know when it's over, how do you know if you are big enough for her and what should you do if your sister's husband wants to have sex with you?
By Cary Tennis
April 9, 2002
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Everything my husband finds physically appealing I am not. Is friendship enough to sustain a marriage?
By Cary Tennis
April 2, 2002
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I slept with a good friend and got the Morning-After Speech: We can't do this again or we'll ruin the friendship. Should I be good and stay out of his way, or go for it, like I want to?
By Cary Tennis
March 26, 2002
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I'm exceptionally smart and well-educated, but I'm ugly and that's why cute girls don't go for me.
By Cary Tennis
March 19, 2002
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Why do married men tell me they love me, then fail to take any action? Plus: I'm in love with him, but his kids hate me.
By Cary Tennis
March 12, 2002
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Life is hard when you have too many women, but you haven't yet figured out how to handle preoccupation with mortality and pointlessness.
By Cary Tennis
March 5, 2002
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I'm engaged to be married, but the sex with my "secret girl" is hot hot hot! She's got two kids by different dads and no job, but she's hot! So, do I ditch the fiancée or what?
By Cary Tennis
February 27, 2002
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I've decided I'm ready to date. Can I just announce it to the world?
By Cary Tennis
February 26, 2002
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Is it strange to be engaged to a man who doesn't want to have sex? And what about a girlfriend who's gone Republican?
By Cary Tennis
February 19, 2002
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I found out that my boyfriend is meeting his ex for lunch. Should I "accidentally" show up at the restaurant?
By Cary Tennis
February 5, 2002
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I'm in love with a woman and she's in love with me, but I think I want more. How can I break it off with her? Plus: Is it OK to contact an old flame via e-mail?
By Cary Tennis
January 29, 2002
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Bad affairs, boys who won't commit, long-distance love and -- threesomes.
By Cary Tennis
January 22, 2002
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How do you choose when friends are getting a divorce, how do you reconcile the need to marry within one's culture and how do you live in a marriage without sex?
By Cary Tennis
January 15, 2002
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I lied about past infidelities, and now I want to tell the truth to my true love. Will she accept it, or will she leave me in the dust?
By Cary Tennis
January 8, 2002
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How can I stop worrying about what other people think of my boyfriend?
By Cary Tennis
December 18, 2001
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Encounters with strange musicians, married women and old boyfriends are part of the joys and exquisite frustrations of life.
By Cary Tennis
December 11, 2001
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The girls tell him, "You're weird" -- and they really mean it. But Cary identifies with the guy, and invites him to San Francisco.
By Cary Tennis
December 5, 2001
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Look for a man who has reached the "no bullshit" stage, where they accept who they are and the way life is.
By Cary Tennis
December 4, 2001
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How can I move on when I keep thinking about the ex I left? What is the latest sleeping-around etiquette? How can I ask a girl out?
By Cary Tennis
November 27, 2001
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Is there a way to gently tell my boyfriend his combover is ridiculous? Plus: The ex-lover I'm still smitten with keeps trying to set me up with other girls!
By Cary Tennis
November 20, 2001
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I spend all my time trying to charm these guys and then find out I don't even like them! Plus: How do I ask for a kiss?
By Cary Tennis
November 13, 2001
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My boyfriend smells good and I can't imagine kissing anyone else, but he lives in New Zealand! Our advice man consults on this and other conundrums.
By Cary Tennis
November 6, 2001
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Should my husband be grading me on my sexual performance? Should I get braces? Should I trust someone just because he pays his taxes on time? Cary answers all these questions, and more.
By Cary Tennis
October 30, 2001
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Our advice man holds forth on how to get a date before we all die, husbands who chew their tongues, how to put the thrill back in a marriage and why kissing is "yucky."
By Cary Tennis
October 23, 2001
Does size matter?
Not his type
After-sex dilemmas
What's a guy to do?
Strange declarations
Existential ennui and too many dates
Which way to happiness?
Feast or famine
Normal and not so
I spy
Is this all there is?
Befuddlement
Love and marriage
What's a guy to do?
Fear of foolishness
Fighting off fantasies
I'm a home-schooled weirdo and my true love is a boozer!
Afraid of being hurt again
Torn between two lovers
Hair do's and don'ts
Online dating
Long-distance love
Fooling around or falling in love?
Boys will be boys
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