Since You Asked

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Sex without love
When he's done with his other women he keeps crawling back to me. Why do we keep ending up together when the sex isn't even that good?
Since You Asked: "Does Size Matter?"
By Cary Tennis
Does size matter?
How do you know when it's over, how do you know if you are big enough for her and what should you do if your sister's husband wants to have sex with you?
Not his type
Everything my husband finds physically appealing I am not. Is friendship enough to sustain a marriage?
After-sex dilemmas
I slept with a good friend and got the Morning-After Speech: We can't do this again or we'll ruin the friendship. Should I be good and stay out of his way, or go for it, like I want to?
What's a guy to do?
I'm exceptionally smart and well-educated, but I'm ugly and that's why cute girls don't go for me.
Strange declarations
Why do married men tell me they love me, then fail to take any action? Plus: I'm in love with him, but his kids hate me.
Existential ennui and too many dates
Life is hard when you have too many women, but you haven't yet figured out how to handle preoccupation with mortality and pointlessness.
Which way to happiness?
I'm engaged to be married, but the sex with my "secret girl" is hot hot hot! She's got two kids by different dads and no job, but she's hot! So, do I ditch the fiancée or what?
Feast or famine
I've decided I'm ready to date. Can I just announce it to the world?
Normal and not so
Is it strange to be engaged to a man who doesn't want to have sex? And what about a girlfriend who's gone Republican?
I spy
I found out that my boyfriend is meeting his ex for lunch. Should I "accidentally" show up at the restaurant?
Is this all there is?
I'm in love with a woman and she's in love with me, but I think I want more. How can I break it off with her? Plus: Is it OK to contact an old flame via e-mail?
Befuddlement
Bad affairs, boys who won't commit, long-distance love and -- threesomes.
Love and marriage
How do you choose when friends are getting a divorce, how do you reconcile the need to marry within one's culture and how do you live in a marriage without sex?
What's a guy to do?
I lied about past infidelities, and now I want to tell the truth to my true love. Will she accept it, or will she leave me in the dust?
Fear of foolishness
How can I stop worrying about what other people think of my boyfriend?
Fighting off fantasies
Encounters with strange musicians, married women and old boyfriends are part of the joys and exquisite frustrations of life.
I'm a home-schooled weirdo and my true love is a boozer!
The girls tell him, "You're weird" -- and they really mean it. But Cary identifies with the guy, and invites him to San Francisco.
Afraid of being hurt again
Look for a man who has reached the "no bullshit" stage, where they accept who they are and the way life is.
Torn between two lovers
How can I move on when I keep thinking about the ex I left? What is the latest sleeping-around etiquette? How can I ask a girl out?
Hair do's and don'ts
Is there a way to gently tell my boyfriend his combover is ridiculous? Plus: The ex-lover I'm still smitten with keeps trying to set me up with other girls!
Online dating
I spend all my time trying to charm these guys and then find out I don't even like them! Plus: How do I ask for a kiss?
Long-distance love
My boyfriend smells good and I can't imagine kissing anyone else, but he lives in New Zealand! Our advice man consults on this and other conundrums.
Fooling around or falling in love?
Should my husband be grading me on my sexual performance? Should I get braces? Should I trust someone just because he pays his taxes on time? Cary answers all these questions, and more.
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