http://dir.salon.com/topics/husbands/?source=rss&aim=husbands en-us Copyright 2007 Salon.com. Fri, 19 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST By Cary Tennis Fri, 19 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/12/19/other_woman/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/12/19/other_woman/index.html?source=rss When she calls, he gets all excited, but I feel hurt and left out. By Cary Tennis Fri, 19 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/10/01/unlawful_mowing/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/10/01/unlawful_mowing/index.html?source=rss My husband mowed their median strip and moved that stick ... and they put it back in our yard! What is that about? By Anita Jain Fri, 19 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/excerpt/2008/08/12/marrying_anita/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/excerpt/2008/08/12/marrying_anita/index.html?source=rss How a single, successful New York writer ended up pursuing an arranged marriage in India. By Rachel Shukert Fri, 19 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/feature/2008/05/27/rock_band/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/feature/2008/05/27/rock_band/index.html?source=rss My husband's video game addiction was driving me crazy. Then we found an obsession we could share. By Cary Tennis Fri, 19 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/09/24/husbands_email_mistress/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/09/24/husbands_email_mistress/index.html?source=rss Could a private detective find her? I have to know what she looks like! By Cary Tennis Fri, 19 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/07/29/kissing_mom/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/07/29/kissing_mom/index.html?source=rss Most displays of affection weird me out, but this is beyond the pale By Cary Tennis Fri, 19 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/07/16/wife_doesn_t_miss_husband/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/07/16/wife_doesn_t_miss_husband/index.html?source=rss She went to Europe for five weeks and I peeked in her e-mail By Cary Tennis Fri, 19 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/06/04/marriage_prison/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/06/04/marriage_prison/index.html?source=rss I'm being held captive by my husband and my dad. I can't survive as wifey for life. How to escape? Fri, 19 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/11/20/privacy_and_prenups/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/11/20/privacy_and_prenups/index.html?source=rss I thought discussing it was reasonable. She says I'm invading her privacy. By Cary Tennis Fri, 19 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/11/11/revenge/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/11/11/revenge/index.html?source=rss Should I tell? He didn't mind her sleeping with a woman, but another man is a different story. By Cary Tennis Fri, 19 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/11/04/trust/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/11/04/trust/index.html?source=rss My husband is trying to show he can be trusted. But it's not working. Have I lost the capacity? By Cary Tennis Fri, 19 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/11/03/divorce/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/11/03/divorce/index.html?source=rss I'm pretty sure this is what I want, but I'm stuck on how to do it. By Cary Tennis Fri, 19 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/09/05/south_africa/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/09/05/south_africa/index.html?source=rss I left the U.S. when I got married and now, with three grown children at home, I feel torn. By Cary Tennis Fri, 19 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/09/04/wifes_traveling/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/09/04/wifes_traveling/index.html?source=rss He seems to believe that when I travel I must be sleeping with my boss. By Cary Tennis Fri, 19 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/08/21/alcoholic_husband/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/08/21/alcoholic_husband/index.html?source=rss What can I do? Should I leave? By Cary Tennis Fri, 19 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/08/07/marriage_ending/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/08/07/marriage_ending/index.html?source=rss We are amicably separated. I thought I had a handle on it. I can't believe the power of my feelings! By Cary Tennis Fri, 19 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/08/04/liar/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/08/04/liar/index.html?source=rss I lied to shut them up but now I can hardly live with myself. By Cary Tennis Fri, 19 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/07/15/dolphins/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/07/15/dolphins/index.html?source=rss I thought I could reunify the family with a trip to the aquarium -- but after my mishap, she kicked me out. By Cary Tennis Fri, 19 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/07/01/sighs/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/07/01/sighs/index.html?source=rss Every time he takes a sip of anything, he emits this deep, mournful exhalation. It is spooky and weird and I want him to stop. By Cary Tennis Fri, 19 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/06/04/exhausted_caregiver/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/06/04/exhausted_caregiver/index.html?source=rss In caring for my sick husband and father and my demented mother, I feel I've ceased to exist as a person. By Cary Tennis Fri, 19 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/05/12/christian_bisexual_husband/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/05/12/christian_bisexual_husband/index.html?source=rss How can I live a good life, now that I've come out to my wife? What if I succumb to temptation? By Cary Tennis Fri, 19 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/05/07/depressed_husband/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/05/07/depressed_husband/index.html?source=rss He's being treated for depression, and it's making me crazy. By Cary Tennis Fri, 19 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/04/30/husband_wants_divorce/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/04/30/husband_wants_divorce/index.html?source=rss We've got five children, one only 2 weeks old -- and now he says he wants a divorce. By Cary Tennis Fri, 19 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/04/24/upstager/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/04/24/upstager/index.html?source=rss He takes credit for my ideas, he insinuates himself into my work life, he appropriates my friends: What's going on? By Cary Tennis Fri, 19 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/02/25/husband_is_too_fast/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/02/25/husband_is_too_fast/index.html?source=rss I'm slower than he is, that's all. I'm just slower.