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Wed, 26 Aug 2009 03:08:00 PDT Wed, 26 Aug 2009 03:08:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/books/int/2009/08/26/lucinda_rosenfeld/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/books/int/2009/08/26/lucinda_rosenfeld/index.html?source=rss Lucinda Rosenfeld talks about the dark side of female friendships and plants a stiletto in sisterhood clichés By Amy Benfer Wed, 26 Aug 2009 03:08:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/broadsheet/feature/2009/10/15/rosenfeld_roofie/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/broadsheet/feature/2009/10/15/rosenfeld_roofie/index.html?source=rss DoubleX's Lucinda Rosenfeld gives some stupendously bad counsel, and readers push back, with advice for her removal By Cary Tennis Wed, 26 Aug 2009 03:08:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/09/29/envy/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/09/29/envy/index.html?source=rss I should enjoy my friends' success, but it just bugs me By Thomas Rogers Wed, 26 Aug 2009 03:08:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/feature/2009/08/18/rogers_fag_hag/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/feature/2009/08/18/rogers_fag_hag/index.html?source=rss Are the ties that bind gay men to straight women beginning to fray? By Mary Elizabeth Williams Wed, 26 Aug 2009 03:08:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/feature/2009/07/27/williams_friendship/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/feature/2009/07/27/williams_friendship/index.html?source=rss Ladies: Want to not talk about feelings? Want a pal who'll offer to kick someone's ass for you? Hang with dudes By Judy Berman Wed, 26 Aug 2009 03:08:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/broadsheet/feature/2009/09/29/pretty_women/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/broadsheet/feature/2009/09/29/pretty_women/index.html?source=rss Do beautiful ladies mistreat their gal pals? By Cary Tennis Wed, 26 Aug 2009 03:08:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/08/31/the_listener/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/08/31/the_listener/index.html?source=rss My friends pour out their problems to me, and I'm starting to feel used By Cary Tennis Wed, 26 Aug 2009 03:08:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/08/27/violence/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/08/27/violence/index.html?source=rss He was in the wrong, but now I don't even enjoy martial arts anymore By Cary Tennis Wed, 26 Aug 2009 03:08:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/08/07/drinking_friend/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/08/07/drinking_friend/index.html?source=rss I used to drink more than she did, but I've cut back and she's sped up By Cary Tennis Wed, 26 Aug 2009 03:08:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/06/23/former_jerk/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/06/23/former_jerk/index.html?source=rss Some folks would still like to stick a fork in my arm -- do I seek them out and apologize? By Cary Tennis Wed, 26 Aug 2009 03:08:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/06/01/introvert/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/06/01/introvert/index.html?source=rss Self-help books say "be yourself." They also say "be interested in others." For me, it's one or the other. By Cary Tennis Wed, 26 Aug 2009 03:08:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/05/29/married_woman/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/05/29/married_woman/index.html?source=rss She says she's loyal to her husband and wants to have babies with him -- do I have a chance with her? By Cary Tennis Wed, 26 Aug 2009 03:08:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/04/24/angel/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/04/24/angel/index.html?source=rss This woman I've known for 33 years appears and disappears at all the biggest moments. By Cary Tennis Wed, 26 Aug 2009 03:08:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/04/13/sisters/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/04/13/sisters/index.html?source=rss They even take my own friends away! By Cary Tennis Wed, 26 Aug 2009 03:08:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/04/07/friendship/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/04/07/friendship/index.html?source=rss All my old friends have drifted away, and new friends just don't meet my standards. By Cary Tennis Wed, 26 Aug 2009 03:08:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/03/27/friend_broke_my_phone/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/03/27/friend_broke_my_phone/index.html?source=rss She opened it like a flip phone. It's not a flip phone. It's a swivel phone! By Cary Tennis Wed, 26 Aug 2009 03:08:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/03/25/destination_wedding_blowup/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/03/25/destination_wedding_blowup/index.html?source=rss The groom said my husband is dead to him. The bride refused my package. By Ryan Blitstein Wed, 26 Aug 2009 03:08:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/feature/2009/03/10/friend_blitstein/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/feature/2009/03/10/friend_blitstein/index.html?source=rss My girlfriend and I are happy except for one small detail -- we just can't seem to make new friends. By Cary Tennis Wed, 26 Aug 2009 03:08:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/03/10/marriage_license/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/03/10/marriage_license/index.html?source=rss As a Universal Life Church minister, I could help my friend get a foreign work visa. Should I sign? By Cary Tennis Wed, 26 Aug 2009 03:08:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/03/05/rude_guest/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/03/05/rude_guest/index.html?source=rss How can we tell him it's late and he should go home? By Cary Tennis Wed, 26 Aug 2009 03:08:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/02/23/know_it_all/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/02/23/know_it_all/index.html?source=rss My boss and boyfriend say I act like I'm omniscient. By Cary Tennis Wed, 26 Aug 2009 03:08:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/02/09/facebook/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/02/09/facebook/index.html?source=rss I've got my cool Facebook account, but now an uncool friend wants to Friend me. By Cary Tennis Wed, 26 Aug 2009 03:08:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/02/02/who_calls_more/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/02/02/who_calls_more/index.html?source=rss "Change is hard," he says. What? By Cary Tennis Wed, 26 Aug 2009 03:08:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/01/29/family_loyalty/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/01/29/family_loyalty/index.html?source=rss She's still focused on how awful he was. Am I wrong to hang out with him? By Cary Tennis Wed, 26 Aug 2009 03:08:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/01/16/planning_for_aging/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/01/16/planning_for_aging/index.html?source=rss My sister and my best friend seem to think I'm living in a fantasy world.