Dating - Salon.com http://dir.salon.com/topics/dating/?source=rss&aim=dating en-us Copyright 2007 Salon.com. Fri, 06 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT Why can't I find a relationship that will last? By Cary Tennis Fri, 06 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/06/06/relationships/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/06/06/relationships/index.html?source=rss Am I destined to be lonely? Do I pick the wrong men? Why am I still single? U still up? By Sarah Hepola Fri, 06 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/feature/2008/06/01/text_message/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/feature/2008/06/01/text_message/index.html?source=rss Text-messaging has made the late-night drunken hookup insanely easy. 2 EZ? I'm a college student with no natural social skills By Cary Tennis Fri, 06 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/04/03/introversion/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/04/03/introversion/index.html?source=rss I'm 21, female, and I don't know how to talk to people! I'm embarrassed to admit I met my guy online By Cary Tennis Fri, 06 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/04/01/met_online/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/04/01/met_online/index.html?source=rss I get funny looks from people when I tell how I made my boyfriend's acquaintance. I want a baby so badly it scares me By Cary Tennis Fri, 06 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/03/31/want_to_make_babies/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/03/31/want_to_make_babies/index.html?source=rss I just want to make babies. I want it so much I feel insane. What do young men mean when they say, "Let's hang out"? By Cary Tennis Fri, 06 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/02/08/friends_with_boys/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/02/08/friends_with_boys/index.html?source=rss I'm a young woman in a new city and I don't want to be misunderstood. I'm afraid I'll be unfaithful to my husband By Cary Tennis Fri, 06 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/01/29/unfaithful/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/01/29/unfaithful/index.html?source=rss I love him to death, but I'm not so hot at fidelity. I'm a busy single mom and I just don't want to date By Cary Tennis Fri, 06 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/01/23/single_mom_not_dating/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/01/23/single_mom_not_dating/index.html?source=rss My mother is bugging me to go out, but really, with three kids, this isn't the time. Romance in a fluorescent-lit cubicle Katharine Mieszkowski Fri, 06 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/broadsheet/2007/12/07/office_romance/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/broadsheet/2007/12/07/office_romance/index.html?source=rss Is dating at work riskier for women than men? If the first date isn't great, why go out with him again? By Cary Tennis Fri, 06 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/12/03/dating/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/12/03/dating/index.html?source=rss I'm a busy divorced mom in her 30s. I don't want to hurt men's feelings, but why pretend? Lonely single guy tired of being lonely and single seeks person By Cary Tennis Fri, 06 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/10/12/lonely_single_guy/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/10/12/lonely_single_guy/index.html?source=rss I'm frustrated and lonely and tired and tired of being frustrated and lonely and tired. Plus did I mention I'm lonely? I'm sexy and available! Chat me up! By Cary Tennis Fri, 06 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/10/02/attracting_men/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/10/02/attracting_men/index.html?source=rss There's nothing wrong with me, but I can stand around all night and men do nothing. Men on eHarmony seem obsessed with women who are "clean" By Cary Tennis Fri, 06 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/09/26/unclean/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/09/26/unclean/index.html?source=rss Doesn't everybody shower? Sixty percent of the men I meet on eHarmony say, "I can't stand someone who is not clean." Bringin' home the bacon, but no boyfriend Tracy Clark-Flory Fri, 06 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/broadsheet/2007/09/24/high_earners/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/broadsheet/2007/09/24/high_earners/index.html?source=rss High-earning women are having trouble dating down, reports the Times. Cupid's science By Rebecca Traister Fri, 06 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/feature/2007/08/20/chemistry/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/feature/2007/08/20/chemistry/index.html?source=rss Anthropologist Helen Fisher explains what online dating sites can learn from the biology of love -- and what the length of your ring finger says about your sex life. My new girlfriend makes dolphin noises in bed! Make her stop! Please! By Cary Tennis Fri, 06 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/08/20/dolphin_noises/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/08/20/dolphin_noises/index.html?source=rss I'm a good communicator, but I have no idea where to start with this. The artful seducer By Tracy Clark-Flory Fri, 06 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/feature/2007/08/06/mystery_qa/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/feature/2007/08/06/mystery_qa/index.html?source=rss Erik Von Markovik, aka the pickup master "Mystery," chats about the "Venusian Arts," sexual psychology and why he can help 40-year-old virgins everywhere get laid. Are men spoiled rotten? By Cary Tennis Fri, 06 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/08/01/men/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/08/01/men/index.html?source=rss Men in their 40s keep breaking up with me because they want to have a baby. How selfish. Do you have to be gay to tell another guy his eyes are pretty? By Cary Tennis Fri, 06 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/06/26/gaydar/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/06/26/gaydar/index.html?source=rss My gaydar says my good-looking co-worker is gay, but he pretends otherwise. Why won't my boyfriend introduce me to his daughters? By Cary Tennis Fri, 06 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/06/13/meet_the_daughters/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/06/13/meet_the_daughters/index.html?source=rss It has been two years now, and there's always a different reason. I'm 18 and afraid it's time to break up with my first boyfriend By Cary Tennis Fri, 06 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/05/15/stillness/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/05/15/stillness/index.html?source=rss I fell hard for his stillness -- but now I want movement. The alcoholic professor put his hand on my crotch By Cary Tennis Fri, 06 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/04/02/drunk_professor/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/04/02/drunk_professor/index.html?source=rss Of course, we had a long affair, but it's been over now for years. My man has a special way of making me feel ordinary By Cary Tennis Fri, 06 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/03/27/no_romance/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/03/27/no_romance/index.html?source=rss Am I wrong to want him to make me feel like one in a million? How can I, a middle-aged single woman, just enjoy the rest of my life? By Cary Tennis Fri, 06 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/03/09/the_rest_of_life/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/03/09/the_rest_of_life/index.html?source=rss I'm a little wild and I've never played by the rules, and I know you don't have all the answers, but maybe you can answer me this. I'm a singer in a band -- but I'm also a nerdy Asian guy By Cary Tennis Fri, 06 Jun 2008 03:06:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/03/01/singer_in_a_band/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/03/01/singer_in_a_band/index.html?source=rss My image contains contradictions. I'm afraid women won't understand me.