http://dir.salon.com/topics/ask_tracy/?source=rss&aim=ask_tracy en-us Copyright 2007 Salon.com. Tue, 23 Dec 2003 12:12:00 PST By Tracy Quan Tue, 23 Dec 2003 12:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/sex/col/quan/2003/12/23/asktracy/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/sex/col/quan/2003/12/23/asktracy/index.html?source=rss I'm frustrated with my husband's low sex drive, but should I cheat on him with a man who has a wife and a girlfriend? By Tracy Quan Tue, 23 Dec 2003 12:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/sex/col/quan/2003/12/22/asktracy_mon/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/sex/col/quan/2003/12/22/asktracy_mon/index.html?source=rss We are both in our 20s and virgins. What should I consider before making love for the first time? By Tracy Quan Tue, 23 Dec 2003 12:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/sex/col/quan/2003/12/17/asktracy_wed/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/sex/col/quan/2003/12/17/asktracy_wed/index.html?source=rss I've given myself pleasure, but orgasms during intercourse with a man I love are elusive to me, even after 13 years of marriage and a lover. By Tracy Quan Tue, 23 Dec 2003 12:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/sex/col/quan/2003/12/16/asktracy_tues/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/sex/col/quan/2003/12/16/asktracy_tues/index.html?source=rss I've been a straight cross-dresser my whole life, but how many women will accept this about me? By Tracy Quan Tue, 23 Dec 2003 12:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/sex/col/quan/2003/12/10/asktracy_wed/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/sex/col/quan/2003/12/10/asktracy_wed/index.html?source=rss We don't have enough sex, so I'm considering going to a prostitute. How do I deal with the guilt? By Tracy Quan Tue, 23 Dec 2003 12:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/sex/col/quan/2003/12/09/asktracy_tues/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/sex/col/quan/2003/12/09/asktracy_tues/index.html?source=rss I love my man, but his kisses leave me cold. How can I teach him how to turn me on? By Tracy Quan Tue, 23 Dec 2003 12:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/sex/col/quan/2003/12/04/asktracy_thur/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/sex/col/quan/2003/12/04/asktracy_thur/index.html?source=rss I'm attracted to Japanese women but I feel like a sex offender walking down the street holding hands with my girlfriend. By Tracy Quan Tue, 23 Dec 2003 12:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/sex/col/quan/2003/12/03/asktracy_wed/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/sex/col/quan/2003/12/03/asktracy_wed/index.html?source=rss Since my girlfriend started using a vibrator, it's hard for me to get her off. Must my John Thomas suffer the fate of John Henry?