http://dir.salon.com/topics/affairs/?source=rss&aim=affairs en-us Copyright 2007 Salon.com. Fri, 12 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST By Cary Tennis Fri, 12 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/12/12/betrayed_spouse/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/12/12/betrayed_spouse/index.html?source=rss I thought knowing my demons would protect me from their power. I was wrong. By Cary Tennis Fri, 12 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/09/04/grieving/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2009/09/04/grieving/index.html?source=rss My wonderful lover is gone but my dreary husband lives on! That's not fair By Amy Benfer Fri, 12 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/broadsheet/feature/2009/08/18/jenny_sanford/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/broadsheet/feature/2009/08/18/jenny_sanford/index.html?source=rss Is the governor's wife really a "role model for wronged spouses"? By Rebecca Traister Fri, 12 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/feature/2008/03/13/silda_spitzer/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/feature/2008/03/13/silda_spitzer/index.html?source=rss Why we care where Silda Wall Spitzer stands. By Cary Tennis Fri, 12 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/01/24/child_support/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/01/24/child_support/index.html?source=rss I'm already raising two kids of my own. Should I divorce her and go it alone? By Mary Elizabeth Williams Fri, 12 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/broadsheet/2009/07/01/mistress_sanford/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/broadsheet/2009/07/01/mistress_sanford/index.html?source=rss Can't we find a better word to refer to Maria Belen Chapur? By Catherine Price Fri, 12 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/broadsheet/2008/08/14/rush_on_elizabeth/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/broadsheet/2008/08/14/rush_on_elizabeth/index.html?source=rss Rush Limbaugh offers his take on why John Edwards decided to stray. By Cary Tennis Fri, 12 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/08/05/hot_for_colleague/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/08/05/hot_for_colleague/index.html?source=rss I'd love to take it even farther, but he's married and unavailable. By Cary Tennis Fri, 12 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/05/29/fathers_affair/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2008/05/29/fathers_affair/index.html?source=rss I found out by snooping that the 60-year-old is fooling around. What to do with this knowledge? By Tracy Clark-Flory Fri, 12 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/broadsheet/2008/05/06/rape_murder/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/broadsheet/2008/05/06/rape_murder/index.html?source=rss A woman caught having an affair told her husband it was rape and he killed her lover. By Catherine Price Fri, 12 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/broadsheet/2007/09/14/alibila/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/broadsheet/2007/09/14/alibila/index.html?source=rss A new online service in France helps philanderers keep their infidelity secret. By Cary Tennis Fri, 12 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/09/05/kissing_women/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/09/05/kissing_women/index.html?source=rss I did it again just last week. What's wrong with me? By Cary Tennis Fri, 12 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/06/06/secret_lover_suicide/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/06/06/secret_lover_suicide/index.html?source=rss My Internet lover had a wife, two kids and some kinky obsessions. Now that he is dead, I want to reach out to the widow. By Cary Tennis Fri, 12 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/05/22/divorce/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/05/22/divorce/index.html?source=rss I have gone through several stages of grieving but haven't reached acceptance yet. By Cary Tennis Fri, 12 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/04/02/drunk_professor/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/04/02/drunk_professor/index.html?source=rss Of course, we had a long affair, but it's been over now for years. By Cary Tennis Fri, 12 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2006/10/27/exes_baby/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2006/10/27/exes_baby/index.html?source=rss The truth could destroy our marriage -- should I do the DNA tests anyway? By Cary Tennis Fri, 12 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2006/08/03/grocery_clerk/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2006/08/03/grocery_clerk/index.html?source=rss What makes it harder is that we're both psychotherapists and we have to work together. By Cary Tennis Fri, 12 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2006/07/13/mister_enlightenment/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2006/07/13/mister_enlightenment/index.html?source=rss My wife has an intense relationship with an "enlightened" man -- should I let him come over and give our kids music lessons? By Cary Tennis Fri, 12 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2006/04/05/home_wrecker/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2006/04/05/home_wrecker/index.html?source=rss It's been great for seven years. But now I've been transferred to his city, and I'm scared. Should I break it off? By Ann Marlowe Fri, 12 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/books/feature/2006/01/30/marlowe/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/books/feature/2006/01/30/marlowe/index.html?source=rss In an excerpt from her new memoir, Ann Marlowe ponders why she has been drawn to romances with much older -- and younger -- men. By Hillary Frey Fri, 12 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/broadsheet/2005/11/22/concubine/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/broadsheet/2005/11/22/concubine/index.html?source=rss In China, corrupt officials are being forced to quit their illicit affairs By Cary Tennis Fri, 12 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2005/08/18/stay_or_leave/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2005/08/18/stay_or_leave/index.html?source=rss I've had some affairs and tried to leave, but he may be the best thing that will ever happen to me. By Cary Tennis Fri, 12 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2005/02/15/wife_affair/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2005/02/15/wife_affair/index.html?source=rss My friends and my therapist disagree. Who do you side with? By Cary Tennis Fri, 12 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2004/10/25/friends_affair/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2004/10/25/friends_affair/index.html?source=rss But I don't know if I should tell her or not. By Cary Tennis Fri, 12 Dec 2008 03:12:00 PST http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2004/10/06/single_mother/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2004/10/06/single_mother/index.html?source=rss I've never been attracted to unavailable men before. What's going on?