http://dir.salon.com/topics/affairs/?source=rss&aim=affairs en-us Copyright 2007 Salon.com. Tue, 06 May 2008 19:05:00 PDT Tracy Clark-Flory Tue, 06 May 2008 19:05:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/broadsheet/2008/05/06/rape_murder/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/broadsheet/2008/05/06/rape_murder/index.html?source=rss A woman caught having an affair told her husband it was rape and he killed her lover. By Rebecca Traister Tue, 06 May 2008 19:05:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/feature/2008/03/13/silda_spitzer/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/feature/2008/03/13/silda_spitzer/index.html?source=rss Why we care where Silda Wall Spitzer stands. Catherine Price Tue, 06 May 2008 19:05:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/broadsheet/2007/09/14/alibila/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/broadsheet/2007/09/14/alibila/index.html?source=rss A new online service in France helps philanderers keep their infidelity secret. By Cary Tennis Tue, 06 May 2008 19:05:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/09/05/kissing_women/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/09/05/kissing_women/index.html?source=rss I did it again just last week. What's wrong with me? By Cary Tennis Tue, 06 May 2008 19:05:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/06/06/secret_lover_suicide/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/06/06/secret_lover_suicide/index.html?source=rss My Internet lover had a wife, two kids and some kinky obsessions. Now that he is dead, I want to reach out to the widow. By Cary Tennis Tue, 06 May 2008 19:05:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/05/22/divorce/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/05/22/divorce/index.html?source=rss I have gone through several stages of grieving but haven't reached acceptance yet. By Cary Tennis Tue, 06 May 2008 19:05:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/04/02/drunk_professor/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/04/02/drunk_professor/index.html?source=rss Of course, we had a long affair, but it's been over now for years. By Cary Tennis Tue, 06 May 2008 19:05:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/01/24/child_support/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2007/01/24/child_support/index.html?source=rss I'm already raising two kids of my own. Should I divorce her and go it alone? By Cary Tennis Tue, 06 May 2008 19:05:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2006/10/27/exes_baby/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2006/10/27/exes_baby/index.html?source=rss The truth could destroy our marriage -- should I do the DNA tests anyway? By Cary Tennis Tue, 06 May 2008 19:05:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2006/08/03/grocery_clerk/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2006/08/03/grocery_clerk/index.html?source=rss What makes it harder is that we're both psychotherapists and we have to work together. By Cary Tennis Tue, 06 May 2008 19:05:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2006/07/13/mister_enlightenment/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2006/07/13/mister_enlightenment/index.html?source=rss My wife has an intense relationship with an "enlightened" man -- should I let him come over and give our kids music lessons? By Cary Tennis Tue, 06 May 2008 19:05:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2006/04/05/home_wrecker/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2006/04/05/home_wrecker/index.html?source=rss It's been great for seven years. But now I've been transferred to his city, and I'm scared. Should I break it off? By Ann Marlowe Tue, 06 May 2008 19:05:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/books/feature/2006/01/30/marlowe/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/books/feature/2006/01/30/marlowe/index.html?source=rss In an excerpt from her new memoir, Ann Marlowe ponders why she has been drawn to romances with much older -- and younger -- men. Hillary Frey Tue, 06 May 2008 19:05:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/broadsheet/2005/11/22/concubine/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/broadsheet/2005/11/22/concubine/index.html?source=rss In China, corrupt officials are being forced to quit their illicit affairs By Cary Tennis Tue, 06 May 2008 19:05:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2005/08/18/stay_or_leave/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2005/08/18/stay_or_leave/index.html?source=rss I've had some affairs and tried to leave, but he may be the best thing that will ever happen to me. By Cary Tennis Tue, 06 May 2008 19:05:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2005/02/15/wife_affair/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2005/02/15/wife_affair/index.html?source=rss My friends and my therapist disagree. Who do you side with? By Cary Tennis Tue, 06 May 2008 19:05:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2004/10/25/friends_affair/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2004/10/25/friends_affair/index.html?source=rss But I don't know if I should tell her or not. By Cary Tennis Tue, 06 May 2008 19:05:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2004/10/06/single_mother/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/col/tenn/2004/10/06/single_mother/index.html?source=rss I've never been attracted to unavailable men before. What's going on? Tue, 06 May 2008 19:05:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/opinion/conason/2004/02/17/spy/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/opinion/conason/2004/02/17/spy/index.html?source=rss Why was it OK to write about George H.W. Bush's alleged affairs in 1992, while bashing Drudge's scandal-mongering today? Because the right still uses sex rumors to smear Democrats while protecting its own adulterers. By Sabina Balou Tue, 06 May 2008 19:05:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/sex/feature/2003/12/15/affair/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/sex/feature/2003/12/15/affair/index.html?source=rss What you want to know is how it feels to make love to someone when both of our wedding rings are off. By Louis Slovinsky Tue, 06 May 2008 19:05:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/sex/feature/2003/08/21/tryst/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/sex/feature/2003/08/21/tryst/index.html?source=rss A memoir of an affair that will simmer in my soul forever. By Andrew Goodwin Tue, 06 May 2008 19:05:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/sex/feature/2003/02/28/email/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/sex/feature/2003/02/28/email/index.html?source=rss The technologies that make affairs possible also contain the seeds of their exposure. By Cary Tennis Tue, 06 May 2008 19:05:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/sex/col/tenn/2002/05/28/tennis_30/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/sex/col/tenn/2002/05/28/tennis_30/index.html?source=rss We love each other, but she won't leave her abusive, jealous, e-mail-snooping man. By Cary Tennis Tue, 06 May 2008 19:05:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/sex/col/tenn/2002/03/12/tennis_19/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/sex/col/tenn/2002/03/12/tennis_19/index.html?source=rss Why do married men tell me they love me, then fail to take any action? Plus: I'm in love with him, but his kids hate me. By Jill Ketterer Tue, 06 May 2008 19:05:00 PDT http://www.salon.com/mwt/feature/2001/12/04/janine/index.html?source=rss http://www.salon.com/mwt/feature/2001/12/04/janine/index.html?source=rss My father is a burning martyr scratching his balls as I condemn him for his sin.